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The Meaning of Life According to the Law of Attraction

Updated: Aug 15


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The Real Meaning of Life According to the Law of Attraction


I spent over forty years searching for meaning in my life, but it wasn’t until I was ready to end that life that I began to discover the meaning behind it. Through my journey from depression to unconditional happiness I have discovered three, undeniable truths about the very nature of our being in this dimension, and I’d like to share them with you so that you too may benefit from this knowledge. 


Number One. Freedom.


Our greatest freedom lies in our ability to choose. Freedom is natural to us. It is our basis of being. Without freedom, we would not be creators. We would be limited, finite. Therefore in order to be the limitless creators that we are, we must be free. We are free to think or do anything we believe is possible. We are free to create and perceive our reality as we make it. We are so free we can even choose bondage in the form of limiting beliefs. There is absolutely nothing holding us back but our own beliefs and a belief is just a thought you keep thinking. And the good news is that thoughts can be changed.


Number Two. Expansion.


Expansion is the inevitable result of living. No matter which form we take, whether it’s the single cell organism or the complex human body, we cannot live a day without creating a desire for something better, something more. When we desire something more, we expand as creators. The invisible Source Energy, the Creative forces of the universe, from which we come expands with the desire and becomes that expansion. So when we desire more money, the universe (or your inner being, as I like to call it when referring to our personal and individual soul experience) immediately becomes more prosperous. The universe holds no resistance to the expansion you just created, for that is its nature, and it simply becomes more because of your asking.


There are three steps to the creation process. Step one is Asking. You, in your human form, live here in this physical, material plane of existence, sifting and sorting through the contrast of life and making preferences for a better, more improved life. The asking comes naturally from living our everyday lives. We cannot help but ask. The purpose of contrast is to create a desire for more, and this is what creates the perpetual expansion of the universe. The main problem for us however, is that we get stuck in step one and we don’t do much to move on to step three. This is because many of us feel disconnected from this universal creative energy, whatever you wish to call it, and we lack the faith to stay the course. 


Step two is the universe answers. Step two is not your job, it is the universe’s and it is where the expansion first happens. In step two, the creation is immediately done for you and waits for you to line up with it. Sometimes we line up with it in step three, and sometimes we don’t. But when we cross over, we will reemerge with the non-physical part of us, our soul and reunite with the universe. Then we will line up with the expansion of our soul. We will experience the expansion in the non-physical world and we will continue to contribute to all of creation from a non-physical vantage point. Therefore there is no such thing as death in the sense that there is an end to life. 


As a psychic medium, I can attest to the fact that true life does not cease to be after we leave this life. We are not our bodies - we have bodies. The body dies, but the spirit which animates it, does not. What we call “death” is merely a transition from one state of being to another. Life will always continue because real life is spiritual, and spirit is eternal.


Step three is Allowing and this is the most important and the most challenging step for us because allowing involves deliberate focus and an intolerance for negative thinking. When we allow, we get out of our own way and we allow the universe to bring to us those things which we desire. To allow means to relax, to trust the universe has your back, to let go of worry and the need to control everything, and it means to choose more hopeful and optimistic thoughts. When we allow, we can begin to translate the impulses (or inspired action) from the universe which will lead us to experiencing the full blown manifestation here in our physical bodies. And that is what we’re doing here, we want to manifest in the material world.


The realm of our Inner Being, our soul, is in the realm of emotions. Whether or not we go with that expansion is up to us as humans. When we go with the expansion we feel good emotions, but when we do not go with the expansion, we feel worse. It’s all about following the emotional guidance from our Inner Being. When we follow that guidance, we are led to our desired manifestations. 


So when you think about something, notice how you feel. That is an emotional message from your soul, letting you know what you are creating with your focus. So pay attention and if you don’t feel good, change your focus until you feel better. Tackling a problem while you’re feeling bad won’t bring solutions. Try it again after you’ve taken the time to soothe yourself. 


Believe it or not, this is the key to living happily ever after because after a while you begin to realize that true happiness is simply a choice, and you make that choice a thousand times a day. There is not a condition that must be met in order for you to be happy, you simply choose to be happy and you choose to let go of the things you cannot control. And little by little, you learn how to use this to attract those things you desire into your life. 


Number Three. Joy.


Now for the best part. If we are free, limitless creators who will inevitably expand as a result of our creations, then what is it all for? What is the purpose? It is actually very simple, so simple in fact, that most people miss it entirely. The purpose of life is joy. That’s it. We are here because it’s fun to create. We are here because that is what we are - beings of joy who are free to continue to build upon their own creation for the sole purpose of having fun.


No big secret really, but an idea that seems elusive to us because we have forgotten the true nature of our being. But look at the little children, look at the animals. They do not concern themselves with anything which might detract from their joyful experience. Sure, they may cry and make a fuss when something untoward happens, as they are reacting to the conditions of their environment but they do not stay there long. They quickly find their way back to feeling good, to the natural well-being which they are, which we all are. They know that feeling good is natural and normal. It is only when we begin to age and believe our parents, teachers, friends, and society when they tell us to “grow up” and “get real” that we lose the knowledge that our natural state is one of joy. Instead we train ourselves out of this, we tolerate negative feelings and begin to think that feeling bad is normal and “just the way life is”. But it’s not.


Abraham and Esther Hicks, brilliant teachers of the Law of Attraction use the cork analogy to explain our natural state of wellness. They say that we are like the cork floating on the waters of well-being. Our natural state is one of ease, where we float peacefully upon the waters, but when we allow conditions to determine our feelings and when negative feelings are tolerated, we hold the cork under the water. All we have to do is stop holding the cork under the water and we automatically rise back up to the surface. It’s just a matter of focusing ourselves back to that natural state and finding the joy inherent in us despite the surrounding conditions. This is what is known as unconditional love or unconditional happiness. This is the state from which we all come and to which we all will return.


The meaning of life is to be joyful creators so that the universal creative forces can continue to expand. We are on planet Earth right now for many reasons, but ultimately we are here in this dimension to experience life in the full blown manifested form of physicality as well as the mental, emotional and spiritual experience. While we are here we can choose to be fully present while we eat the food, watch the sunsets, dance to the music, make love, swim in the waters, and we can choose to be free and joyous in our creative power! Many of us have forgotten this yet when we hear this message, something deep inside resonates within us. Something tells us that this must be true because happiness is indeed what we are all seeking.


The secret to happiness is that it’s already present within you, you just have to stop pinching it off, stop holding the cork under the water. Realize that feeling bad is not normal, but feeling good is. Have no tolerance for feeling bad and care enough to soothe yourself into feeling better and you will float right back up. The solutions will come, I promise, when you get out of your own way. With practice, we can teach ourselves how to be unconditional in our happiness and we can start living our lives on purpose with focused and deliberate intent on living a joyful life.


Just make a small change and start right now because your happiness is worth it. Start caring more about how you feel and stop tolerating feeling bad, then just become aware of the differences this makes in your everyday life. I know you won’t regret it. 



Thanks for listening. I appreciate your support and if you want me to continue to share my insights, please be sure to like this video so I know. 


Should you need any guidance on your spiritual journey, please visit my website to book a reading with either myself or one of the other talented readers at laughing gypsy dot com. 


From my heart to yours, may you always find alignment, laughter, and the courage to live your joy.


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